We know, it can be hard to put yourself out there, especially after you’ve outgrown the age where you can just send your bestie to casually ask their bestie if they might possibly kinda a little bit like you, right?
Of course, you won’t know exactly how your crush will respond to you until it happens, but it can be helpful to have a plan in place for both outcomes.
The reason that you should act quickly once you’ve decided to tell your crush you have feelings for them is that the longer you wait, the longer you have to talk yourself out of it.
For the rest of us, keep it light by just letting your crush know you’re interested in a way that doesn’t make them feel like you’ve planned the wedding already.
Pick a moment where there isn’t any major time pressure working against you (like you’re on the elevator, heading to different floors) or where your crush isn’t stressed out during a work rush or something like that.